Freedom

As we approach Memorial Day weekend, I would like to ask 2 questions. First, what does Memorial Day mean to you? Is it the official start of summer? Is it the start of picnic season? Is it a time for family gatherings? Is it a time for the Indy 500? Is it a time for men to test their culinary skills using propane, charcoal or Weber? 

When I was a boy growing up in the suburbs of Pittsburgh, it was tradition that we attended the Memorial Day parade that wound its way through town and ended at the cemetery. Everyone would gather to hear the speeches from both important townspeople as well as men and women from the VFW Post . 

As I got older, it seemed that we, as Americans got away from that tradition. I hope that during the busyness of the weekend, before you plant in your garden, cut your grass or light the outdoor grill – you take a moment to remember those who gave their lives so that we could enjoy so many of the freedoms we have today. Secondly, what does freedom mean to you? 
Is freedom not having to go to work every day? Is freedom being out of debt - not owing any bills? Is freedom having the luxury of choosing where you want to go, what you want to do, and how long you want to do it? Here is a thought…… 
Ask yourself, if what you are doing in life today, with your talent, skills and time – was that worthy of a man and / or a woman dying for? No matter what war they died in – the Civil War, Revolutionary War, WWI, WWII, Korean War, Vietnam, Gulf War or today’s war against terror - that soldier put their life on the line, many even giving their life – so that you can pursue your dream. 

Is the dream you are chasing worth the price that was paid for it? 
If so, then keep forging forward striving to become better, to make a difference, to change the status quo. 

If not, then I suggest you spend part of this weekend, searching your heart and your soul – asking your God what purpose you are serving and what you are being called to do. 

You see, that soldier did not die so you could hesitate, second guess yourself, dance in your comfort zone or even take your good old time reaching your goal. That pilot whose plane was shot down out of the sky did not give his or her life so you could live a life of “coulda, woulda, shoulda.” That POW did not endure torture, threats and abuse so you could reach the end of your life full of regrets ….wishing you had done more. 

No! 
They gave of themselves so you could give of yourself…..whether that is to make the world a better place……make it a safer place…….make life a bit easier on the next generation……..or to do whatever you were put on this planet to do. 

Now – get off your butt and do it. There are cemeteries full of military personnel who are counting on you. 
Lastly – and certainly not least – if you have served in the military – THANK YOU!!!!! Your decision to defend our country was not in vain. And, will never be forgotten. 

Have a safe week 

Ron Orendi